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How to Date a Confident Girl

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There are aspects of life that can be seriously intimidating. Case in point, when you meet a really confident girl you really like, but she just seems so, well, confident. She clearly knows what she wants and likes and seems to have all of her ducks in a row. It's hard to know how to even approach her to get a date, let alone have a relationship. Here's how you can do it.

 

 

Difficulty: Moderate

 

Instructions

1. Become self-assured in who you are. A confident girl doesn't feel the need for a relationship. She isn't looking for someone or something to complete her, because she is confident. Therefore anyone she dates must have this same trait. Otherwise, she'll get frustrated at your "neediness." No matter what you look like, or what you do for a living, embrace it. And if there is something about yourself that you don't particularly like, take the action to change it before approaching this confident girl.
   
   
   
2. Ask her on a date. But when you ask a confident girl on a date, the date cannot be merely some dinner and a movie. It must be a little more special, a little more planned. If you sound average, she will think you are average. A confident girl wants more. Plan an afternoon of wine tasting. Go for a hot-air balloon ride. Visit the circus. Something completely out of the ordinary, that adults will rarely allow themselves to do.
   
   
   
3. Stay confident throughout the date. Keep your point of view. Passive people have a way of adopting other people's viewpoints. A confident girl doesn't want someone simply to repeat what she said. Keep your own point of view about politics, religion, life and more. You will earn her respect that way. And if for some reason you really don't see eye to eye on an issue and it's a deal breaker, then it's better to find out now.
   
   
   
4. Plan ahead as you date. A confident girl will have a schedule as well as her own life and her own plans. The only way the two of you will make that work over the long haul is by continuing to communicate about that schedule. If you simply adopt her schedule, she will start to resent you for it. Keep your own life, but make sure to plan time for the two of you. If you are both confident and successful in your own right, it will only fuel the fire of your relationship.