Info For Boys - How to Kiss Girls

How to Kiss Girls

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*Kiss Girls

How to Kiss Girls

No girl ever forgets a bad kiss. If there's one thing you don't want to be known as, it's a bad kisser...and girls talk! It's not hard to learn how to kiss girls with a few easy tips and tricks.

 

 

Difficulty: Easy

 

Instructions

1. Begin by touching her hand and making intimate conversation. You might want to tell her that she is beautiful, or how much you like spending time with her.
   
   
   
2. Lean in close to your girl and look her in the eyes. Keep talking to her and saying nice things.
   
   
   
3. Brush your lips gently to hers and back off a little.
   
   
   
4. Wait for her response. If she backs away, stop immediately! She does not want to kiss you. If she leans in, that's your cue to keep kissing.
   
   
   
5. Kiss her gently at first and touch her hair with her fingers. As the intensity increases, you can begin to kiss her more passionately. You might even want to pause and just brush your lips against hers a few times to increase the passion. =)

Info For Boys - How to Treat a Girl You Love

How to Treat a Girl You Love

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*Surprise your girl with flowers.

 

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Saying the words "I love you" can be meaningless if you are not following up what you're saying. Show through your actions that your girl means everything to you by treating her like the most beautiful and special girl in the world.

 

 

Difficulty: Moderate

 

Instructions

1. Be considerate of her feelings. A woman wants to be adored and loved, so showing kindness and understanding is the key to her happiness and heart. Also, listening to her and asking how her day went without tuning out shows that you care and also will prevent many arguments between you.
   
   
   
2. Girls like surprise so be a little spontaneous. Bringing flowers, taking her out for a night on the town or a little getaway for the weekend are only a few of the countless things you can do. This shows you are creative, and it will keep her wondering what other romantic surprise you have up your sleeve.
   
   
   
3. Become her own personal chef. You don't have to do this every day, but breakfast in bed will make your girl extremely happy that you took the time to make the best meal you can while slaving away in the kitchen. Even if you're not great at cooking, she will still appreciate your effort.
   
   
   
4. Let her know how well she looks in a dress, or say she looks sexy with her sweat outfit on. A girl might get compliments all the time from guys, but it is really special and important when her significant other tells how beautiful she is. She knows that she doesn't have to doll up all the time for you to think she is attractive. Besides, the more you compliment her, the more she wants to look her best for you.
   
   
   
5. Show your girl that you're thankful for her every day, not just on her birthday, Mother's Day or even Thanksgiving. If she is a mother, tell her she's an excellent parent to your children. If she is your wife or girlfriend, tell her how happy you are to have her in your life and you would not want it any other way. Being sentimental at times will show her that you are a remarkable man.

Info For Boys - Gifts for Girls for Their Wedding

Gifts for Girls for Their Wedding

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1. 
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   Gift-giving is a time-honored wedding tradition.
   One of the most special times in a girl's life, a wedding marks the beginning of new chapters in her life. Of all of the wedding traditions from one culture to another, gift-giving is the most celebrated, and giving a girl a gift for her wedding should be a sentimental and memorable occasion. From personalized trinkets to eye-popping and glamorous gifts, giving a girl something special on her wedding can be a special moment for yourself as well.

Pamper and Relax

2. 
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   Spa passes make for excellent wedding gifts.
   Whether for before the wedding or afterward, an all-inclusive pass to a spa makes most girls giddy with excitement. Passes for the bride and groom or the entire wedding party make for a memorable and truly relaxing gift to help even out those wedding jitters. Spa packages vary from one establishment to the next but often include massage, sauna time, manicures, pedicures and facials. Some specialty spas incorporate exotic techniques such as hot stone massage with their packages.

This Is Your Life

3. A perfect gift idea to be made by the maid of honor or the bride's closest relative, a scrapbook highlighting the girl's life before her wedding is emotional, heartfelt and memorable. Highlight some of the bride's most cherished moments with photographs, poems, notes and other mementos and embellish with decorative trim, colored paper and charms. The scrapbook can contain a signature page, signed by all of the guests of the wedding, completing the crafty gift.

Bridal Overnight Bag

4. Grab bags make recipients happy because instead of getting one gift, they get a decorative bag filled to the brim with interesting novelties and treats. For a bridal gift bag made for a girl's special day, include all of the essentials a woman could need on her honeymoon. Optional items include bath and body spa sets, scented lotions and perfumes, honeymoon novelties, lingerie and decadent chocolates.

Info For Boys - How to Win Back Your Girl (in 7 steps)

How to Win Back Your Girl (in 7 steps)

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Is it really over? Not if you can keep your cool... Winning back a love is a challenging thing to do, mainly because our emotions get in the way of the rational thinking we need to do in order to see things from the other person's perspective. This how-to guide is written from the perspective of a male trying to win back a female, but I'm certain most of the principles are universal.

How to Win Back Your Girl (in 7 steps)

 

 

Difficulty: Challenging

 

Instructions

Things You'll Need:

• Will power
• Patience
• Determination
• Confidence
• Friends
• Love

1. 
    
   Don't call her. Don't e-mail, text, or write a letter. If y'all were serious you could send the perfect greeting card (not an e-card), but just sign it. Let the card do the talking. Don't send flowers yet, either. Winning back your love is a delicate balance between being available and being valuable.
   
   
   
2. When trying to win back your girlfriend, don't answer the first time she calls. Either call her back (later) or wait for the 2nd call from her. If you don't have the will power to let it ring, she won't have much reason to still be interested in you. She should think you are living life, not just sitting at home thinking about her. If you haven't heard from her in 8 days, you could take it as a sign, or, if you're really sure about this, start thinking about a text or a casual phone call. Try to have some kind of real reason to contact her other than "I miss you." No e-mails, please. The reason we are playing 'hard to get' is simple psychology. It is also simple economics, which is mainly psychological. "Supply and Demand". If you seem too eager to speak with her, you are certainly not in short supply. You are a surplus, thus your value goes down.
   
   
   
3. 
    
   When the two of you are finally in direct communication, your goal is to seem like you are glad to be friends with her (which you should be, if you really care about her!) and that being broken up isn't that big of a deal to you. It's fine to express you were glad to be together, but don't ever let her think that you feel a NEED to be with her -- because she knows you don't NEED her. If she doesn't think you need her, she will want you to want her, because it makes her feel important. You want to play it cool, though, and talk about new things you are doing (its okay to exaggerate a little but never fib).
   
   
   
4. 
    
   Talk about plans you have, things you're excited about doing, and then ask her how she is doing. Don't ask it like "are you okay since we're broken up", just be genuinely interested in how she is. The most important thing is to be sincere -- this is not a game, and if you can't be sincere with her than the best thing is probably to accept that you didn't work out and move on with your life.
   
   
   
5. 
    
   Be prepared for total rejection, but don't expect it by any means. You are playing the role of 'cool, happy dude' who she is missing out on. Your goal is never to ask if she wants to get back together -- your goal is to be so awesome that she feel like she is missing out on the wonderfulness that is you. You wait for her to ask about seeing one another.
   
   
   
6. Maintain a balance between the two of you where for every time you call her, you wait for her to call you. It's okay if a day, or even up to 3 days go by without talking. That just means you are a confident man who has plenty of things going on in his life. If 3 days go by without hearing from her, it's fine to give a call and if there's no answer, leave a friendly message or better yet, no message at all. Do not call a 2nd time unless she calls first.
   
   
   
7. 
    
   When things start taking a romantic turn and it seems like y'all are getting back together, be the man and call her when you know she is free to talk. Never bug her at work if it is not welcome. Still though, you should only be calling her up to twice as often as she is calling you, or you become "needy" in her eyes again. She wants a strong man who can live without her, not a weak man who thinks he needs her to live.
   
   Good Luck to You. =)

Info For Boys - Good Gifts for Girls

Good Gifts for Girls

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Almost everyone likes getting a gift for a girl, some become they like to see a girl's face light up, but others because they think finding gifts for a girl is easy. But getting a good gift for a girl is only easy if you know the girl and her tastes well.

Jewelry

1. Almost every girl loves jewelry. Pay attention to what she wears the most and its usual color and type.

Books

2. Pay attention to what your girl reads the most. Instead of buying something written by her favorite author, try finding something comparable to the author and introduce her to someone new. This not only proves you pay attention to her taste but that you are interested in cultivating it as well.

Flowers

3. The iconic gift for girls has always been flowers. Notice the colors your girl wears or favors the most and find a flower that matches or complements that color. You could go one step further and grow a flower for her or give her her own flower to grow once you have planted it.

Something Homemade

4. Girls like homemade things for their thoughtfulness and uniqueness. Try baking cookies or muffins, or if you are terrible in the kitchen, try making her a small wooden box or trinket.

Tips

5. Never try to buy clothes for a girl. You run the risk of buying too small, or worse, too large. Never buy something generic. Always find gifts in a unique and locally owned shop. Always add thoughtfulness into every gift you give, whether it's with color or personal interests.

Info For Boys - How to Get a good Girl for you

How to Get a good Girl for you

You can get any Girl.

 

 

Difficulty: Easy

 

Instructions

 

Things You'll Need:

• Confidence
• Personality
• Humor
• Forgiveness
• Self-Love

1. Find Yourself- The most important thing in getting a significant other is knowing who you are, knowing you strengths, knowing your weaknesses, and knowing how to use these to your advantage. Find what is unique about you and find what you can offer a women that no one else can. Play to this unique strength.
   
   If you are funny- be funny
   If you aren't- Don't
   
   
   
2. Be Confident- Confidence is a must, this will often come as a result of finding yourself. Women love confidence, It is important to know that you have strengths, talents, and abilities. Don't brag. Just let your natural abilities come out when the time is right. Never be embarrassed or ashamed. You are who you are, and if the girl doesn't like it- TOUGH. You will find someone who does.
   
   
   
3. You should be kind- Set yourself above those other jerks.
   
   
   
4. Know that every girl is not the right one for you, you will win some, you will lose some. The important thing is learning from the bad experiences and applying them to your next attempt.
   
   
   
5. Have fun, enjoy life, take the bumps, take the bruises, and always see the good in every situation. People love to be around someone who is always positive and enjoying life, a woman will love a man who can do this too.
   
   
   
6. Don't worry- Never worry- Life is too short.

Info For Boys - How to Ask a Girl Out on a Date

How to Ask a Girl Out on a Date

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Ask a Girl Out on a Date

How to Ask a Girl Out on a Date

Guys, I know it's nerve-racking asking a girl out on a date. It can be a bit intimidating. But it's not as hard as you think. Here are a few tips from a woman's perspective.

 

 

Difficulty: Moderately, Easy

 

Instructions

1. AVOID pick-up lines.
   Please, no "Hey, baby, what's your sign?" or "You must be tired because you've been running through my head all night." Keep it simple and just introduce yourself.
   
   
   
2. GET to the point. Don't be aggressive or rude.
   Say something like, "Hi my name is John. And your name is?...Amy, I'm interested in getting to know you. Would you be interested in going on a date with me?"
   
   
3. BE confident.
   Put a smile o your face. Look the young lady directly in the eyes. Wear clothes that make you look good and feel good. When you feel good, you exude confidence.
   
   
   
4. BE yourself.
   Don't try to be the kind of man you think she's attracted to. You're more interesting when you're genuine and real. Besides, if you fake the funk it'll come out eventually.
   
   
   
5. PRACTICE.
   Practice what you're going to say and how you're going say it. Practice in front of a mirror. Also practice with a female friend or relative. It's always good to get valuable feedback from a woman's perspective.
   
   
   
6. BE prepared if she says no.
   It's not the end of the world. Don't take it personal. Think of it this way: A "no" just means you're that much closer to a "yes" from a girl who's right for you.
   

Info For Boys - How to Dress to Impress Girls

How to Dress to Impress Girls

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Dress to Impress Girls

 

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Girls definitely find it hard to resist a well-dressed man. From a female perspective, men are almost always judged based on their appearance and style. How can you be sure that you are dressing to impress girls? Just follow the style tips below.

 

Difficulty: Moderately, Easy

Instructions

Things You'll Need:

• Good-fitting jeans
• Tailored slacks and blazer
• Black dress shoes and socks
• Clean sneakers
• Crisp white t-shirt
• Solid-colored polo shirt
• A great tie
• A v-neck sweater

1. Wear clean, freshly laundered and ironed clothes that are free of stains, holes and tears. This may sound like a no-brainer, but a lot of guys neglect to wash and iron their clothes, or continue to wear old t-shirts that have holes in them. Girls definitely notice such slovenly dressing, and it's a major turnoff.
   
   
   
2. Wear clothes that fit. Jeans should fit snugly at the waist - not too baggy and not too tight. Pants and blazers should be tailored to fit at the waist and shoulders. Jacket arms should be an appropriate length - reaching the wrists when your arms are at your side. Likewise, pants should hit directly at your ankles when in your standing position. Girls are extremely impressed by men who recognize the importance of well-fitting clothes.
   
   
   
3. Wear clothes that match. Don't combine different patterns and prints, like wearing a plaid shirt with striped pants. Keep your look simple, but stylish. For example, pair printed shirts with solid colored pants or shorts. Alternatively, tame embellished or striped pants with a plain polo shirt. A stylishly simple outfit that is sure to get you noticed would be a nice pair of jeans, a crisp white t-shirt worn under a v-neck sweater or polo shirt with a new pair of sneakers or black loafers.
   
   
   
4. Wear appropriate shoes. Don't wear sneakers with suits, or wear flip flops on a date (unless the date is at the beach). Girls pay particular attention to a guy's shoes, and they can be extremely picky. Always wear black dress shoes and black socks with a suit or dress pants. Wear clean sneakers and white socks with jeans and shorts.
   
   
   
   
5. Keep jewelry and other accessories to a minimum. Limit jewelry to one nice watch, a ring or a silver chain necklace. Don't go overboard with multiple rings, necklaces and bracelets. You can also accessorize your look with hats, scarves and belts.

Info For Boys - How to Not Ask a Girl Out (from a Girls Perspective)

How to Not Ask a Girl Out (From a Girls Perspective)

There are tons of right ways to ask a girl out and there are tons of wrong ways to ask a girl out. It totally depends on the girl and your relationship but most girls do not prefer to be asked out by the following ways.

 

Difficulty: Moderately, Easy

Instructions

1. 1. Never ask a girl out by a note. First of all if you ask a girl out by a note she can never be sure if it's really you who wrote it or one of your friends trying to be funny. She also might think it's you trying to be funny. Also writing a note makes it much more awkward when you finally have to talk to eachother and it gives the impression that you are shy and don't have the confidence to approach her in person.
   
   
2.  
   Never have your friends ask a girl out. Again she cant be sure if it's a joke and it can be wierd for her because she will feel extra pressure from the friend who is asking. Also it gives the same impression of shyness and lack of confidence.
   
   
3. Try not to ask a girl out on the phone or through texts. If you are really shy asking a girl out on the phone is probably your second best option because it's you talking directly to her though not in person.

Info For Boys - How to Approach a Girl & Get Her Phone Number

How to Approach a Girl & Get Her Phone Number

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*Get her number

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Meeting new people for friendships and dating is a little scary to most people. Boys especially seem to have a difficult time approaching a girl to get her phone number. They fear getting tongue tied, saying something stupid or even being rejected completely by the girl. If you approach in the right way, the chance of successfully getting the girl's number increase. The secret is all about perspective from the girl's point of view, letting go of anxiety and being confidant. =)

Info For Boys - How to Get a Girl to Call You Back (A Girl's Perspective)

How to Get a Girl to Call You Back (A Girl's Perspective)

If you meet a girl, and you get her phone number, you might feel like the hardest part is over, but really, your work is just beginning.

Girls can forget about you, change their minds about dating, or just have something better to do. If you want a girl to call you back, you've got to make that great first impression all over again.

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Difficulty: Moderate

Instructions

 

Things You'll Need:

• A girl
• A phone

1. The first time you call, your girl will most likely not pick up. Some women do this to see what a guy will say on their answering machine. Some girls will just have simply lost interest by then. Gauge your chances by throwing the ball back in her court.
   
   
   Do not leave a message on the first callback. Everyone has caller ID these days. She knows it's you.
   
   
2. Step 2 is only if the girl doesn't call back after step 1. This is an incredibly crucial step.
   
   
   If the girl doesn't call back, FORGET ABOUT HER for 2 days and go about your business. Get other girls' phone numbers and other dates if you can.
   
   
   
   Put an X on your calendar to call her back for the final time in 2 days.
   
   
3. On the second callback, if she doesn't pick up, you will leave a message. Note that either way, this is the final time you will call her without her calling you.
   
   
   To increase your chances of a callback, your message should be short and witty. Give her a SHORT re-introduction about where you met (4-5 words max), and excitedly tell her about the surprise you have waiting for her should she be smart enough to call you back. Pique her interest by making her think you have the best date in the world planned.
   
   
   * If she doesn't call back at this point, she's simply not interested. If she does, she wants to see what you've got up your sleeve. Good luck. =)

Info For Boys - How to Date a Confident Girl

How to Date a Confident Girl

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There are aspects of life that can be seriously intimidating. Case in point, when you meet a really confident girl you really like, but she just seems so, well, confident. She clearly knows what she wants and likes and seems to have all of her ducks in a row. It's hard to know how to even approach her to get a date, let alone have a relationship. Here's how you can do it.

 

 

Difficulty: Moderate

 

Instructions

1. Become self-assured in who you are. A confident girl doesn't feel the need for a relationship. She isn't looking for someone or something to complete her, because she is confident. Therefore anyone she dates must have this same trait. Otherwise, she'll get frustrated at your "neediness." No matter what you look like, or what you do for a living, embrace it. And if there is something about yourself that you don't particularly like, take the action to change it before approaching this confident girl.
   
   
   
2. Ask her on a date. But when you ask a confident girl on a date, the date cannot be merely some dinner and a movie. It must be a little more special, a little more planned. If you sound average, she will think you are average. A confident girl wants more. Plan an afternoon of wine tasting. Go for a hot-air balloon ride. Visit the circus. Something completely out of the ordinary, that adults will rarely allow themselves to do.
   
   
   
3. Stay confident throughout the date. Keep your point of view. Passive people have a way of adopting other people's viewpoints. A confident girl doesn't want someone simply to repeat what she said. Keep your own point of view about politics, religion, life and more. You will earn her respect that way. And if for some reason you really don't see eye to eye on an issue and it's a deal breaker, then it's better to find out now.
   
   
   
4. Plan ahead as you date. A confident girl will have a schedule as well as her own life and her own plans. The only way the two of you will make that work over the long haul is by continuing to communicate about that schedule. If you simply adopt her schedule, she will start to resent you for it. Keep your own life, but make sure to plan time for the two of you. If you are both confident and successful in your own right, it will only fuel the fire of your relationship.

Info For Boys - How to Forget a Girl

How to Forget a Girl

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It isn't easy to forget a girl soon after a breakup because the memories of her are still fresh in your mind. As time goes by, forgetting her does get easier as memories begin to fade. Here are some steps you can take to speed up the process.

 

 

Difficulty: Challenging

Instructions

1. Remove all reminders of her from your life. This includes pictures or her or the two of you together, keepsakes, mementos, even copies of movies you watched together. Having these things around will serve as a constant reminder of her, so get rid of them.
   
   
   
2. Acknowledge thoughts of her as they come into your head and then move on. When you think of her, give yourself a minute or two to do so, then stop thinking about her.
   
   
   
3. Keep busy by focusing on other areas of your life. Go out with friends, get a new hobby or throw yourself into work or school. Keeping yourself busy will prevent you from thinking of the girl you are trying to forget. In short, make the focus of your life about you and not the girl.
   
   
   
4. Remind yourself that there will be other girls. She is not the only girl in the world that you are ever going to care for, believe it or not. Keep reminding yourself of that and keep an open mind about getting to know others.